{"id":2797,"date":"2022-02-04T07:43:14","date_gmt":"2022-02-03T23:43:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/connect.muslimpro.com\/?p=2797"},"modified":"2023-11-01T15:35:24","modified_gmt":"2023-11-01T07:35:24","slug":"being-a-muslim-in-a-non-muslim-country-a-short-guide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/connect.muslimpro.com\/2022\/02\/being-a-muslim-in-a-non-muslim-country-a-short-guide\/","title":{"rendered":"Being A Muslim in A Non-Muslim Country: A Short Guide"},"content":{"rendered":"[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.16″ custom_padding=”|||” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.16″ custom_padding=”|||” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.16″ custom_padding=”|||” global_colors_info=”{}” custom_padding__hover=”|||” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_cta button_url=”#TOP” _builder_version=”4.16″ header_font=”|700|||||||” header_font_size=”44px” header_line_height=”1.5em” body_font=”Noto Sans||||||||” body_font_size=”17px” use_background_color=”off” custom_button=”on” button_text_size=”17px” button_text_color=”#ffffff” button_bg_color=”#ff6b5a” button_border_width=”5px” button_border_color=”#ff6b5a” button_border_radius=”100px” button_font=”Noto Sans|700||on|||||” button_use_icon=”off” text_orientation=”left” background_layout=”light” max_width=”700px” module_alignment=”center” custom_margin=”|-18px||||” custom_padding=”|0px||||” header_font_size_tablet=”” header_font_size_phone=”34px” header_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” button_text_color_hover=”#ffffff” button_border_color_hover=”#ff9e59″ button_bg_color_hover=”#ff9e59″ global_colors_info=”{}” button_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_text_size__hover_enabled=”off” button_text_color__hover_enabled=”on” button_text_color__hover=”#ffffff” button_one_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_text_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_width__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_color__hover_enabled=”on” button_border_color__hover=”#ff9e59″ button_one_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_border_radius__hover_enabled=”off” button_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_one_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_letter_spacing__hover_enabled=”off” button_bg_color__hover_enabled=”on” button_bg_color__hover=”#ff9e59″ button_one_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” button_two_bg_color__hover_enabled=”off” theme_builder_area=”post_content”]

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Growing up in a Western country, I have encountered many Muslims struggling to keep up with their faith, feeling like they will be left out if they openly practise or simply fearful of being\u00a0associated with the unfortunate misconceptions people have about our beautiful religion. This peer pressure that led some to hide part of their identity often comes with\u00a0an understandable yet questionable statement: “It would have been easier if I was living in a Muslim country<\/em>.” But would it really?<\/p>\n

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1. No Space for Denial<\/h2>\n

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In theory, being in a place where you can hear the adhan and pray on time, where you can\u00a0feel the spirit of Ramadan when it approaches, or where no one stares at you because you\u2019re\u00a0wearing hijab would make the laws of Allah easier to follow indeed\u2026 But aren\u2019t we forgetting how globally connected our world has become and how temptation is everywhere? Sure, all\u00a0the above serves as great reminders of His commands, but isn\u2019t it\u00a0naive to think that all it takes to be a good Muslim is to be in a Muslim country? And isn\u2019t it deceptive to believe the opposite; that if you’re living in a non-Muslim country, it somehow makes disobeying the Almighty acceptable?<\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t get me wrong, I understand how it feels. I grew up in France, mostly surrounded by non-Muslims, and although I\u2019ve always been close to my faith alhamdulillah<\/em>, I remember\u00a0often telling myself: “Oh how simple life would be if I lived in a Muslim country<\/em>.” But that only lasted until I met people from countries like Saudi Arabia, Morocco or Indonesia who sadly didn\u2019t\u00a0feel any sort of connection to Islam. In fact, they saw it as a burden, just like some Muslims in western countries, and were surprised about how I practised Islam. Some of them\u00a0would even ask questions like, “Why do you even bother with religion? You\u2019re lucky enough to live in a country where you\u2019re not forced to do anything, where people won\u2019t judge you if you\u00a0smoke, drink, have sex or wear short skirts\u2026 So why?<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

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That\u2019s when it hit me: this had nothing to do with your environment and everything to do with your heart<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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2. Overcoming Your Own Biases<\/h2>\n

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Now you should be reflecting upon the biases you\u2019ve let yourself be blinded by, that which has\u00a0undeniably affected your faith, but also feel a sense of relief because being a Muslim in a non-Muslim country doesn\u2019t set you up for failure in obeying Allah whatsoever! However, this can only happen if there is a genuine desire to build a strong relationship with\u00a0Him and to educate yourself on what Islam is truly about.<\/p>\n

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More often than not, people tend to limit our deen to its practice, whether it be the five pillars<\/a> or things that are explicitly forbidden in the Holy Quran but commonly enjoyed in modern times, such as drinking alcohol, pre-marital relationships, etc. But there\u2019s something really sad and wrong about limiting Islam this way.<\/p>\n

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The pillars are the foundation of our faith and what makes us Muslim. Truth be\u00a0told, there\u2019s no way we can get around associating things to the Almighty or not praying. But in order to fully reconcile with these practices and not see them as a cultural tradition or a chore that doesn\u2019t fit in the western way of life, you need to fully comprehend their meaning. Do\u00a0you know why the first word of the Quran that come down to our dear Prophet Muhammad \ufdfa was “Iqra!<\/em>” (Read!)? Because connecting to Islam can only happen if you start searching, reading, and learning.<\/p>\n

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The more you educate yourself, the more you\u2019ll start craving knowledge and realize something\u00a0key: Allah didn\u2019t make these laws to hinder enjoyment in our lives but to allow us to reach\u00a0true contentment of the heart. Religiously speaking, these are signs of you strengthening your\u00a0imaan<\/em> (your faith) and slowly reaching al-Ihsan<\/em> (spiritual excellency).<\/p>\n

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Finding yourself with a rejuvenated love for Him and understanding the \u2018whys\u2019 will make you\u00a0proud of your values and not shy away from sharing them with non-Muslims. Some of them\u00a0might even admire how steadfast you remain in your faith and start searching more about\u00a0Islam!<\/p>\n

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3. How to Practise Peacefully<\/h2>\n

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Living in a Non-Muslim country does mean that the majority of places to eat are not halal; some of your friends might invite you to events where alcohol is served; most girls do\u00a0not dress modestly\u2026 You know how it goes, and therefore know that as much as we are\u00a0wholeheartedly attached to our deen, it can still be challenging and even draining to be in situations where Allah does not bless with His Barakah.<\/p>\n

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However, you don\u2019t have to compromise on what makes you Muslim. Objectively, you do not have to eat meat when you\u2019re out; you have alternatives, especially with the recent\u00a0rise of vegetarianism and veganism. You also don\u2019t have to drink alcohol to fit in as people are\u00a0more and more aware of the terrible effect it has on health. You also could make a conscious effort to put yourself in a Muslim friendly environment by joining a local charity or going to the mosque and avoid places where fitna <\/em>is celebrated. Ultimately, Islam isn\u2019t complicated \u2014 we\u2019re the ones making it complicated for ourselves by worrying more about people\u2019s judgement rather than His.<\/p>\n

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But here\u2019s the thing: Even when you feel like you\u2019re not doing enough or wish you could do\u00a0better, He sees it. Find comfort in the fact your efforts will never go unnoticed as He knows how hard it can be to control your nafs<\/em>, to resist listening to shaytan<\/em>. He knows what kind of\u00a0 hardship He is putting you through and He has certainly hid blessings in it. Remember He is Ar-Rahman, the Most Merciful, so every time you can\u2019t seem to forgive yourself, He does. Isn\u2019t\u00a0that the greatest source of peace?<\/p>\n

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Assia Boukrouh is <\/i><\/span>a 27-year-old content creator based in Paris, France and you might know her from The Mizaan over on Instagram, a page she considers to be a safe space for Muslim women to explore their faith, embrace the Islamic lifestyle and to learn to be more mindful and sustainable everyday.<\/i><\/p>\n

For more spiritually uplifting content, check out this 4-part video series on Being a Mindful Muslim <\/a>where we collaborated with Assia on tips to become a mindful Muslim in different aspects of our lives such as relationships, wealth, health, and faith.<\/p>\n

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